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Prayer

Kylie and I have been working hard at praying together lately. It's a bit embarassing, but for 12 years of marriage now we really haven't established a consistency in praying together. We have times of praying individually every day and we pray with our kids in the morning and the evening, but unfortunately for the most part we have just let it go... knowing it would be great if we did, but resigned to the fact that it's hard to find time.

Well, last April I became aware of the ministry of Family Life and began listening to the podcasts of their radio program. It was really great to hear good thoughts and content throughout the week. It helped me remember the significance of my role as a husband and father as well as evaluate what I want to be true of my family and how to get there. I began implementing lots of little things and seeing a lot of fruit.

Then came the Family Life Oneness Prayer Challenge. The challenge was to begin praying together every day for 30 days. I thought, "that's what I need." I've know that Kylie really wants this, but never been consistent enough. We have missed a day here or there, but what a joy it's been to start the day or end the day talking to God about how we are feeling, what's been a challenge, where we need help, etc. We are still working on finding the right time, but I'm sure we will get there.

Check out their website and get some of their devotionals or 'prayer prompts' and see if it is helpful for you as well.

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